R n R (Real estate N Ripped off)

The ups and down is just monotron of life. After get rid of the office, enjoying G & B and The Kardashian is like must watch programme for me despite finishing my assignment. Meantime the household  burdens ie liasing with financial institution, legal matters, stupid vendor make me tired and sick. As of today, the leave granted  to me is not really a bonus thing but it becomes  another special time for to solve the heavy things beside my study.

 

Taking real estate doesn’t make me comfort. After two times experiencing sales and purchase with the one launch house and a sub-sales house, I did for the third time and this is just the preparation my kids.And this  I was conned clearly. The house owner, asking me to pay for another 8 percent for late charges.What I most regret was,  she asked me to use her lawyer, her buddies bank and yet after bank late receive  of security  documents and the late charge was being penaltied to me. How dare ..you ?
I don’t want to talk about the professionalism because she‘s the one who begged me to purchase the house so that she can get rid of that current loans in order from her to purchase another one.So since Zareene had some increament then I agreed to purchase but I dont expect she threat us like this.  Financially,I ‘m not the one who in dire straits and  desperate  but after the document exercise with the up and down, rejected by the bank  because of the under-valued  , again she simply cheated me in the name of  professionalism. Mathematically, it definitely a wrong investment where the debt is more than the receipt  but thinking of the decentralization now, I ‘m worry if my daughter couldn’t have any house in the future.

Initially I already accept the capital price and the deferred credit term but the late charge to me is just something that shouldn't be happen.I said it’s haram  for them taking my money just like that .

The day I was not in the mood and stress thinking about Liza nad husband, friend of mine Alone called me up for a cup of coffee at Bintang Bistro . He is actually from Kulim  and coming here for a bussines trip  and we had a good chit-chat .The day after that we went out for Halal Fest and visiting his old boss, M Nasir at Luncai Emas, Sg. Buloh. yeahh meeting someone who have big name and some more he is celebrity.

Arriving Luncai Emas, we were welcomed by M Nasir and AD Samad, the lyricist. M Nasir seems not really neither a quiet  nor talkative person.He is just in the middle of that. Alone is kinda elaborating him about  his new bussines venture with Tekun and sometimes there are part they talk about pearl bussines with one of tycoon they knew before.M nasir then   asking me several things about the real estate, caveat things , value and financing  and offering me to lease out his properties. The offer is quite good from a big name but when he mentioned that  his  property is just next to a Bak Kut Teh restaurant  I  think it's a bit tough to lease or sell.  

There are some pro and cons this few day , being ripped off by stupid vendor and having chance to lease out M Nasir properties. But it depends on Alone's effort to get the contact . Meeting a big name for at least  buck-up my inner side and revitalize my emotional. 

One thing for sure they never give up in their life, positive thinking ,work hard and finally they deserve it.  Well, meeting M Nasir makes my day.

Tong Cat

Paint barrel

Until there is no substance, no content

I have run out of paint use
but it is not as beautiful as I was expecting

As of today

it will be exactly a month I off to office. It had been month spending time painting a house; greet my parents and solving some of the internal problems. Yes it is silent as silent death but good for not being there is a sense of grief.
The most I was alarmed that I worship the growing sprawl. Almost a year I did not set foot to the mosque.

Today felt like going to a movie and do some shopping. But think of allowances that have not been entered to account, Shahnaz kindergarten fees to be paid, lawyer fees are still pending, I postpone my first intention. Fortunately ,rich fast easy scheme helps me a lot.

Today its okay as I see the face of the shit colored paint barrel.

Just For Three Days

Three years in blog’s writing doesn’t make me a keyboard warrior hence it may helps my vocabulary matters. To champion in writing is not one day training and many people said those who are good in speak they can’t write. I represent that group which I can say that my English in speaking and ability to speak more or less above the average but not in writing. Now the more times I have, the lazier I am in writing perhaps writing something personally may hurts others but does it sound so unfair that we can’t even say anything we feel, we think and even to express ourselves.

Last month a friend of mine asked to delete one of my posts in FB. He thought that, the post had made him so humiliated. I then agreed to remove it. To cut it short I may simplify what he meant is that, what I wrote in my FB really makes him uncomfortable. I was first commented on someone who always portrays his posh living and richness by playing golf, holiday and kenduri but at the end of the day when he going to asked me for money. So that it’s about other people I was referring to but suddenly he think that it was like I spit on his face. His marriage with the girl which we never like really made him comes into financial problem and many of his financial decision are not be made together so that they just show off to people about the posh of their life but the truth is not. I think what kind of marriage of that. A miserable marriage with a hard financial problem and to what they knew is let the whole world endorse them as rich people. Badly news, I pointed to the other and someone else hurt. Too bad.

Any married couple needs motivation and it may comes in different way. Neither about religious, financial, kid’s matters nor household management it doesn’t matter, as long as they can re-boost the marriage, physically and spiritually. Taking a motivation maybe impossible for me and Zareene as both of us are lazy with paper base trained so that watching a movie about marriage may sound good idea for both of us. I think it has been along time I didn’t spend a good time with Zareene since we have already two daughters. The last was travelling to Europe so that it had been seven month already. By purchasing Untuk Tiga Hari movie, I guess it may give us a free counseling on our marriage. She agreed and we went to Alamanda for a date.

Okay let me give some overview of the movie. Untuk Tiga Hari tells the love story of unusual and bizarre. Its about two pairs of lovers who had married at the insistence and parent preference. The couple decided to divorce after three days they get married.

. Within three days they spend together, they began to realize that that is the best match for them as had been determined by God and continue the relationship is not bad and is probably the best thing that ever happened in their lives.

Afdlin Shauki directs and acts in this movie about a pair who decide to end their marriage after 3 days to please their elders, but then during their time spent together, they start to realise that fate and maintaining their bond may not be so bad and could be the best thing that's ever happened for them.Zaffin and Ujie is along time lovers and they plan to get married. Unfortunately both parties are forced to marry with different person and they make a deal that their wedding would be just for three days duration. The first day, they will get married; on the second say their weeding celebration and the third they will ask for a divorce from the partner. The earlier plan sounds ideal for Zaffin as he is the guy so that the talak in on him but for Ujie it’s a little bit difficult because she has to apply for it. The crazy plan goes madness and finally Ujie decided to go for her husband as she can see the quality inside him compare to Zaffin who’d been loser from the beginning of the story. Zaffin is kind of pamper son and could make up his mind in any decision of his life including the final say about his marriage. All of decision making are from his mother and that’s make his miserable from beginning. Compare to Ujie, that she’s just followed Zaffin’s plan but after she get married and get lectured from his husband , she realized that Zaffin is hopeless. This good movie slowly gives us a journey of a marriage and it contents a lot of good lessons and noble gist. I must say the movie give a good moral to any couples that a marriage is not something to play with and it is not something we can take it lightly.

Marriage is a big responsible we must be responsible on it. It’s easy to get married but to maintain a good marriage is a big challenge to any couples. That’s the first reminder from the narrator or in that movie Afdlin put the narrator as a wedding course trainer. A malay movie with a strong Adam Sandler’s screen play.