Three years in blog’s writing doesn’t make me a keyboard warrior hence it may helps my vocabulary matters. To champion in writing is not one day training and many people said those who are good in speak they can’t write. I represent that group which I can say that my English in speaking and ability to speak more or less above the average but not in writing. Now the more times I have, the lazier I am in writing perhaps writing something personally may hurts others but does it sound so unfair that we can’t even say anything we feel, we think and even to express ourselves.
Last month a friend of mine asked to delete one of my posts in FB. He thought that, the post had made him so humiliated. I then agreed to remove it. To cut it short I may simplify what he meant is that, what I wrote in my FB really makes him uncomfortable. I was first commented on someone who always portrays his posh living and richness by playing golf, holiday and kenduri but at the end of the day when he going to asked me for money. So that it’s about other people I was referring to but suddenly he think that it was like I spit on his face. His marriage with the girl which we never like really made him comes into financial problem and many of his financial decision are not be made together so that they just show off to people about the posh of their life but the truth is not. I think what kind of marriage of that. A miserable marriage with a hard financial problem and to what they knew is let the whole world endorse them as rich people. Badly news, I pointed to the other and someone else hurt. Too bad.
Any married couple needs motivation and it may comes in different way. Neither about religious, financial, kid’s matters nor household management it doesn’t matter, as long as they can re-boost the marriage, physically and spiritually. Taking a motivation maybe impossible for me and Zareene as both of us are lazy with paper base trained so that watching a movie about marriage may sound good idea for both of us. I think it has been along time I didn’t spend a good time with Zareene since we have already two daughters. The last was travelling to Europe so that it had been seven month already. By purchasing Untuk Tiga Hari movie, I guess it may give us a free counseling on our marriage. She agreed and we went to Alamanda for a date.
Okay let me give some overview of the movie. Untuk Tiga Hari tells the love story of unusual and bizarre. Its about two pairs of lovers who had married at the insistence and parent preference. The couple decided to divorce after three days they get married.
. Within three days they spend together, they began to realize that that is the best match for them as had been determined by God and continue the relationship is not bad and is probably the best thing that ever happened in their lives.
Afdlin Shauki directs and acts in this movie about a pair who decide to end their marriage after 3 days to please their elders, but then during their time spent together, they start to realise that fate and maintaining their bond may not be so bad and could be the best thing that's ever happened for them.Zaffin and Ujie is along time lovers and they plan to get married. Unfortunately both parties are forced to marry with different person and they make a deal that their wedding would be just for three days duration. The first day, they will get married; on the second say their weeding celebration and the third they will ask for a divorce from the partner. The earlier plan sounds ideal for Zaffin as he is the guy so that the talak in on him but for Ujie it’s a little bit difficult because she has to apply for it. The crazy plan goes madness and finally Ujie decided to go for her husband as she can see the quality inside him compare to Zaffin who’d been loser from the beginning of the story. Zaffin is kind of pamper son and could make up his mind in any decision of his life including the final say about his marriage. All of decision making are from his mother and that’s make his miserable from beginning. Compare to Ujie, that she’s just followed Zaffin’s plan but after she get married and get lectured from his husband , she realized that Zaffin is hopeless. This good movie slowly gives us a journey of a marriage and it contents a lot of good lessons and noble gist. I must say the movie give a good moral to any couples that a marriage is not something to play with and it is not something we can take it lightly.
Marriage is a big responsible we must be responsible on it. It’s easy to get married but to maintain a good marriage is a big challenge to any couples. That’s the first reminder from the narrator or in that movie Afdlin put the narrator as a wedding course trainer. A malay movie with a strong Adam Sandler’s screen play.
