Monday, August 2, 2010

Variation Order of A Marriage

It’s been funny to hear an advice from Pak Haji who has a multi-marriage, to his son, Nadim. He said “just one and let it be once”. Marry someone else is not the antidote to the current marriage. Pak Haji said it makes your life hells. Many people had said a polygamy husband always lie and the lie always shoot them up. While suffering half body stroke, that good advice considered a bit late. After quite sometime, then he realized only his first wife treated him well. Dr. Salmah, who owned a maternity clinic, is very passionate wife. To a certain extend she had a lot suffered with Pak Haji naughtius maximus. On the other plot, Pak Haji was looked tired being chased by his ‘small’ daughters. His wires face look anger unnecessary. Indonesian filmmaker is good in define polygamy. That is in Berbagi Suami.

In our version, people might think how lucky Jamil was, when every steps in the corner being supported by his lovely father in law. From the rental house bill collecting to his new wife candidate, he’ll be back boned by the FIL morally and methodologically. On the other scene, the rat race between Jamil and all his wives had shown the madness in multi-marriage practice. P Ramlee had successfully developed the consequences of the "more marriage" in his own way, sarcastic and tragic-comedy.

Last week, I cursed a moron named Husni who planned to a polygamy practice. Apparently, he tried to get approval from the syariah court after his wife refuse to sign the acceptance letter. Husni who is primary school teacher just recently get the bonus from his own bloody newly setup MLM business and he believe he is able to manage another household. He however still can’t afford accommodate a good shelter to the family. He rarely had extra money before this and until now still shading under his wife house. What a shame.

I don’t really have a specific opinion on this matter. Historically, my father was a victim of polygamy and he suffered a lot. So that technically, I disagree with the idea of multi marriage since I born.
Surely, this article will make my wife smile and she may sleep calm soothingly as though nothing much to worry about his husband. But one thing for sure, she knew that it’s quite hard for me to camouflage my face whenever I see sexy girls or MILF across to me. That’s fact.

P/s: a variation order is a 'change' which the Architect may be issued to make to the drawings, such as putting in a new window. The Architect will then inform the builders of the variation. In this article it means get a new wife, polygamy or multi-marriage practice.